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"Good Men Are Not Hard To Find - They Are Hard To Seduce"

There is a common misconception floating around that good men are scarce and elusive creatures that have vanished into thin air. But here's the truth - good men aren't hard to find. They simply aren’t easily captivated by the surface-level charms that many focus on displaying.

A man of substance does not base his choice on passing attractions. He seeks depth, character, someone who aligns with his values and vision. If you’ve been struggling to get the attention of a genuinely good man, it might be time to change your strategy.

What doesn't work:

Tight-fitting clothes and revealing clothes: Yes, these may catch the eye of many, but a good man seeks more than what is on the surface. He seeks a deeper connection than the appearances.

Social media drama: posting exaggerated rants or super select selfies may draw likes, but it won't inspire genuine respect or interest.

Materialism over meaning: flaunting love for luxury or designer labels doesn't impress someone grounded in values.

What works:

1. Character over cleavage: A good man pays attention to how you treat others, your humility and your kindness. A compassionate heart leaves a lasting impression

2. Brains Over Beauty: Intelligence is not about degrees or vocabulary; it's about curiosity, wisdom, and the ability to hold meaningful conversations. Stimulate his mind and you'll gain his admiration.

3. Values over vanity: A man of substance admires a woman with clear values and purpose. Show him your love for growth, your commitment to your faith, or your dedication to something greater than yourself.

4. Consistency over chaos: stability without drama is a magnet for good men. They're looking for someone who can handle life's challenges with grace, not someone who constantly invites unnecessary turbulence.

5. Confidence over Conformity: Be Unapologetically You. A good man respects a woman who knows her worth and isn't afraid to be alone when necessary.

The secret to getting a good man:

A good man doesn't need you to change who you are; he needs you to be who you are - authentically, unapologetically, and with integrity.

He’s not looking for perfection, but someone who complements his own journey, someone with shared values and goals. He realizes the silent strength behind your actions, the way you talk to others and how you carry yourself through the ups and downs of life.

So, if you're striving for a meaningful connection, focus less on fleeting external traits and more on cultivating the qualities that define your inner self. Let your actions, intellect and values speak louder than your clothes or social media.

Be more strategic than pretty. Because when a good man finally notices you, he'll cherish every aspect of who you are — inside and out.

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Faith and Goals

"LORD, God of my master Abraham, make me successful today." GENESIS 24:12 NIV

G enesis 24 tells a wonderful story of how faith and goals oper- ate together. Abraham told his servant Eliezer to go into the land of his family to find the right wife for his son, Isaac. The serv- ant knew exactly what he needed to do, but he also knew that he could not make the right choice in his own wisdom. So before he went any farther, Eliezer prayed for God to establish an action plan and grant him success. He then trusted the Lord for his mission. It wasn't very long before he arrived back home with Rebekah by his side.

The real satisfaction of Eliezer's adventure, and of yours as well, exists in seeing the Lord at work in the details of life-the different parts come together in a manner that cannot be explained by any- thing but His divine guidance. Do you desire to experience God's direction in this way? He wants to show you what to do. So don't allow another day to pass without seeking His plan for tomorrow and trusting Him to guide your feet along the path. It is never too late to enjoy the awesome leadership of the God who loves you and who has a perfect plan for you.

Jesus, I want to know Your plan and walk in it successfully. Please guide me, my Savior. Amen.